Self-Help/ Self-Improvement

Tips to boost your SELF CONFIDENCE

If you’re looking to improve your self-confidence, it’s important to note that it is not something you can achieve overnight, but surely you can accomplish it if you have a proper routine and discipline in your day-to-day life.

Self-confidence is the key to a successful life and it makes us feel positive about everything around ourselves.

Confidence is a strong sense of self. When we have self-confidence, we signal to others that we believe in ourselves and our ability to deliver results. As a leader, confidence enables us to lead powerfully. When we approach others with confidence, we increase our chances to engender trust and respect.


However, here are some actionable steps that you can take, and following them in your daily routine will surely make an obvious difference in the way I saw in my life.

1. Positive Self-Talk

Positivity starts from one’s mind. Thinking positively about ourselves allows us to do the best of everything we do.

Before talking to anyone else in the world, human beings talk to themselves. If we talk negatively to ourselves, then it becomes very difficult for us to utter positive words in front of others.

“Be kind to yourself and do not become your own worst enemy.”

Whenever we want to achieve something in our life, we first have to ensure ourselves that “I am going to succeed”. This positive self-talk will boost one’s confidence and can overcome any hurdles coming in their way.

2. Self Acceptance

We all know that we are living a life somewhat to impress others only.

In order to improve, first of all we have to accept ourselves. This way we feel satisfied and confident and this becomes easier to move ahead in life.

If we do not accept our good and bad qualities, we will continuously feel restless, while remaining in an inferiority complex. Just think how others can accept and like us if the one’s not liking themselves.

Self-approval and self-acceptance in the now are the main keys to positive changes in every area of our lives.” Louise Hay

“To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.”

3. Positive Thinking

“Positive thinking will let you do everything better than negative thinking will.”

Try to kill negative thoughts and start filling positive thoughts.

By doing this, whenever a negative thought will ever come in your mind by that habit of positive thinking , that negative thought will easily tackled.

I always feel very good whenever I throw away all my fears from mind. This helps me to focus on a particular goal in my life, instead of worrying about the things that are missing in my life.

TRAIN your mind to see good in everything. Positivity is a choice,the happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts.

4. Self Affirmation

“Positive thinking will let you do everything better than negative thinking will.”

It is absolutely most important thing in our lives.


  1. I have the power to control my thoughts.
  2. I am confident and I can achieve my goal.
  3. I am releasing self-judgement and & embracing self-love.
  4. I am at peace with my past.
  5. I am resilient, strong & brave.
  6. By being myself , I bring happiness to others.
  7. I choose to be happy right now.
  8. I am letting go of all that no longer serves me.

People can boost their ability to solve problems under pressure by using self affirmation.

“It is also recommended to do affirmations first thing in the morning and last thing at night.”

If you want to improve yourself by strengthening your mental strength, then you must visit this article : 12 PRACTICAL TIPS TO BUILD YOUR MENTAL STRENGTH

5. Creative Visualization

If you want to reach a goal, you must “see the reaching” in your own mind before you actually arrive at your goal.

You have to dream first before your dreams come true.

If one have a creative thinking in mind that too with positivity of surely achieving it, then nobody can stop that person to achieve his/her goals.

“It is also recommended to do affirmations first thing in the morning and last thing at night.”

I believe that I am going to be the person I think I am. That’s why I visualize myself succeeding in my life. The power of visualization can change my life completely.

If I picture myself achieving my goals, I will definitely do that. And if I can’t picture of my success, the chances are I won’t.

“To accomplish great things we must first dream, then visualize, then plan… believe… act!” — Alfred A. Montapert

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6. Success Celebrations

Celebrate your victories, each and every little one. Every step forward is important, no matter how small.

I use to celebrate my personal victories because no one else understands what it took to accomplish them.

I reward myself when I achieve success. I may go out for lunch, arrange a trip with my family or buy flowers. Celebrating my own victories improves my confidence level.

I encourage and reward myself in case no one else does.

Don’t wait until you reach your goal to be proud of yourself. Be proud of yourself every step of the way.”

7. Persistence

Ambition is the path to success. Persistence is the vehicle you arrive in.

It is my belief that success in life requires to be persistent to achieve goals. It is important for us to stay motivated along with our journey.

We all don’t want to stuck in one place, neither give up in the middle of our struggles.

It is my belief that success in life requires to be persistent to achieve my goals. It is important for me to stay motivated along with my journey.

“I don’t want to stuck in one place, neither give up in the middle of my struggles.”

How to persist :

  1. Make small efforts everyday.
  2. Be patient with the process.
  3. Focus on the path, not the destination.

Persistence is much related to self-confidence. Our self-confidence helps us to believe that we can accomplish our goals.

We can build persistence by making good habits and dumping our bad habits, like smoking and drinking. But it is impossible for us to maintain a particular habit for a long time, So, it is highly recommended to read this article : Make a good habit or get rid of bad habit.

8. Self comparison

Don’t compare yourself to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

It is the most important thing in our lives that we need to stop comparing ourselves with others, because if we do so: if the other person is better than you then it will definitely affect our self-confidence and we start thinking that we can’t do good than that person which is not a attitude in life .

“Don’t compare yourself to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.” — Regina Brett

The comparison makes our blessings less valued. We start forgetting our blessings while comparing ourselves to others.

We should keep reminding ourselves that there are always two sides of a coin. One is visible, the other is hidden. When we look at someone better than us, we are looking only at their visible side. We have no idea about their entire circumstances.

It is unwise to compare our life with others and feel inferiority complex. This will lose your self-confidence.

Don’t compare yourself to others. Be the best you.

9. Pursue Excellence, not Perfection

Excellent is not always perfect and Perfect is now always excellent.

The definition of perfectionism is “the setting of unrealistically demanding goals accompanied by a disposition to regard failure to achieve them as unacceptable and a sign of personal worthlessness.”By contrast, consider pursuing excellence in everything you do. Aiming for excellence means setting and meeting the highest standards that are reachable.

Somehow I can’t believe that there are any heights that can’t be scaled by a man who knows the secrets of making dreams come true. This special secret, it seems to me, can be summarized in four C s. They are curiosity, confidence, courage, and constancy, and the greatest of all is confidence. When you believe in a thing, believe in it all the way, implicitly and unquestionable. – Walt Disney

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